It’s not easy talking about HS.
It’s even harder to talk about it if you’ve been dismissed or misunderstood in the past. But here’s the truth: you deserve care that reflects your reality, and your dermatologist can’t treat what they don’t know. From the physical pain to the mental strain, sharing every detail with them can make all the difference in your HS care—so speak up. Advocate for yourself. Go about the conversation with confidence, because your experience matters.
The reality of your HSdeserves attention
The reality of yourHS deserves attention
Lay out the challenges that you’ve been carrying all these years.
- Physical: Pain intensity, pain frequency, odor, or discharge
- Social: Missed work, social withdrawal, or intimacy challenges
- Emotional: Anxiety, depression, shame, or any other mental health challenges
Conversation starters
Conversation starters
Not sure where to begin? These openers can help.
- “HS has been affecting my day-to-day more than it used to. Can we talk about that?”
- “Here’s what I’ve tried, and what hasn’t worked.”
- “I want to talk about other options I haven't explored yet.”
Besides speaking up, bringing photos of your flares or notes about when HS hits the hardest can give your dermatologist a clearer picture of what you’re dealing with. Remember, they’re here to help, so helping them can only help you.
HS, hidradenitis suppurativa.